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Expanding Your Sexual Play Pt 2: How

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, April 20, 2010

There are two fundamental parts to expanding your sexual play:

  • it’s got to be REAL, ie it has to be what you truly want, and
  • it’s got to be CONSENSUAL, you both have to want it.
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Expanding Your Sexual Play Pt 1: What

Jacqueline Hellyer - Tuesday, April 13, 2010

A common question from clients and workshop participants, not to mention people I bump into at parties etc, is how to expand their sexual play.

As I often say, there’s a veritable smorgasbord of sexual possibilities, so why limit yourself to meat and three veg (with vanilla ice-cream as a special treat!)? Unless of course all you actually like is meat and three veg. I keep stressing that there are no ‘shoulds’ in sex, the important thing is to find out what is real for you and honour that. So if you really only like meat and three veg type sex, that’s fine. But if you’re curious about sushi or ravioli, then give it a go! And if you like it, then make it a regular part of you life.
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How To Consume An Ice-Cream - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 2

Jacqueline Hellyer - Friday, March 19, 2010

Have you been practicing eating a peach? Savouring its juicy lushness…?

Have you found within you the ability to lose yourself in that peach, to taste, suck, lick and devour it with full sensory awareness and heightened arousal?

Well, hold that space and let’s take that a step further. We’re going to add some technique and look at how to consume an ice-cream. read more...



How To Eat A Peach - Lose Yourself in Pleasure Pt 1

Jacqueline Hellyer - Friday, March 12, 2010

Sensuality is without a doubt a key element to great sex. Sensuality, intimacy, surrender, eroticism – all essential elements that don’t necessarily have anything to do with the genitals.

We have five senses which can constantly bring us delectable, luscious sensuous experiences. If we’re open to them.

Once we are, we can bring that awareness into our love-making – and make magic.

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Masculine & Feminine Sexual Energies

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, March 04, 2010

I incorporate the energetic aspect of sex strongly into the work I do with private clients and in workshops. Personally I believe that without this understanding of sex it’s very difficult to correct problems and to move towards reaching your sexual potential.

The energetic traditions I draw from are both Tantric and Taoist, as well as my own experiences in the martial arts, particularly aikido (which translates as ‘the way of harmony’ and which is extraordinarily like sex, in the sense that is simultaneously still and moving, physical and spiritual, strong and soft, and constantly requiring connection and flow).

There are some very useful analogies about sexual energy and I love to share with modern people that they generally find quite illuminating. Here’s one:
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Love in the Time of Chaos

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, February 25, 2010

There’s a great article I wrote in the latest edition of Men’s Health Magazine on Sex for Busy People.
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Become a Blackbelt in the Bedroom!

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, February 18, 2010

Why a “Blackbelt” in the Bedroom?

I'm about to launch seminars for Men Only called Blackbelt in the Bedroom. Obviously the title is catchy (what man wouldn’t want to be a blackbelt in the bedroom?) and that’s why I’m using it, but commericial cynicism aside, there are very good reasons why I’m chosen the term “blackbelt”.
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Partnered Yoga - Erotic Connection

Jacqueline Hellyer - Thursday, January 28, 2010

I had the most unexpectedly delightful experience earlier this week, I attended a two-day Partnered Yoga training course. I’d only heard about it a couple of days before and thought “Yes, this would be so relevant to my work!” So after managing to sort out the kids (still being school holidays) I found myself on Monday morning literally entwined with the course participants on the yoga floor. read more...



The birth of my Blog - with some underlying philosophical ramblings

Jacqueline Hellyer - Monday, November 02, 2009


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