Download Audio: Slay the Pink Elephants!
That’s what a couple said to me recently: “We’re slaying the pink elephants!” These elephants had been sitting in all the corners of their relationship and taking up so much room they were feeling stifled and could hardly breathe, let alone relate.
Because the elephants were there, but they did nothing about them, the elephants grew in size and number and took up a ridiculous amount of room. The couple had got to the point where they couldn’t mention anything of any significance or meaning as there was so little space in the relationship. They were tippy toeing around with shallow breath, hoping they wouldn’t bump into an elephant.
Fortunately, they found the way to acknowledge that the elephants were there, and do something about them. They got out the metaphorical elephant guns and went on safari within their relationship, slaying all the pink elephants - those they knew were there, and those they discovered along the way.
It can be quite a process to do this, and rarely easy. It requires bravery and commitment. You’ll hear stuff you don’t want to hear; you’ll acknowledge parts of yourself that you’re not proud of, you’ll get a greater insight into your partner and into yourself, and you’ll learn ways of moving forward together.
The very first step is to admit the pink elephants exist and commit together to doing something about them.
Note: If the analogy of slaying elephants is a bit gruesome, just think of rounding them up and herding them away!
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